Every newcomer’s journey is unique. Moving across an ocean is a leap of faith, but for one Florida native, a short visit turned into a lifelong commitment. This interview explores how a change in geography led to a profound change in perspective, and how the “Land of a Thousand Hills” became a permanent home.
From Florida to Family: My Kigali Journey
What makes someone decide to stay in Kigali for good? Beyond the clean streets and the rising skyline, it’s often the social fabric that captures the heart. In this conversation, we delve into the transition from the Sunshine State to the heart of Rwanda, touching on community, culture, and the unexpected beauty of building a family in a new land.
First Impressions and Daily Life
What brought you from Florida to Kigali, and what were your first impressions?
I was drawn by Kigali’s reputation as one of Africa’s cleanest and safest cities, but what really captivated me was how the city balances modern development with strong traditional values. The sense of community here is something you rarely find in the US.
What surprised you most about daily life here?
The efficiency! From public services to how neighborhoods are organized. But the biggest surprise was how quickly I felt at home. The warmth of Rwandan hospitality is genuine—people remember your name and genuinely care about your wellbeing.
Exploring the City and Shifting Perspectives
Where are your favorite spots to explore?
I love Nyamirambo for authentic local food, Kisimenti for casual dining, and Remera for experiencing daily local life. But my favorite moments are the peaceful evenings spent with family, enjoying the hillside views.
How has living here changed you?
Back in Florida, we have everything at our fingertips, but here I’ve discovered the richness that comes from genuine human connections. The way Rwandans prioritize family has deeply influenced how I want to live my life.
Building a Future
Can you share about building relationships and family life?
This is where my story took an unexpected turn. What started as a visit turned into marrying a wonderful Rwandan woman. The process of cross-cultural marriage here is beautiful but does require deep patience and understanding of both backgrounds.
For those considering relationships with locals, take time to understand the cultural values around family; Rwandan families are very welcoming but deeply value respect for their traditions.
Practical Advice for Newcomers
- Tip 1: Come with an open heart rather than just an open mind. Initial adjustments are easier when you embrace the local pace of life.
- Tip 2: Learn basic Kinyarwanda. Even simple greetings like “Muraho” or “Amakuru” go a long way in building rapport with your neighbors.
- Tip 3: Say “yes” to invitations. Whether it’s a coffee in Kimihurura or a family gathering, these are the moments where you truly integrate into the community.
New to the City?
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